Although she enjoyed every bit of bhagwat and she also danced with relatives at the time of bhajans but finally it took a toll on her body and on eight day after bhagwat got finished her condition started getting deteriorated.Bhagwat was held from 3rd November to 9th November and on 10th there was bhoj ( bhandara )for whole villagers.
She went back to Delhi by train on 13th November and her condition got very deteriorated during the journey and train got late by 5 hours.Immediately after reaching Delhi ambulance was called from Medanta Hospital,Gurgaon.Last year she was treated there at the same time for lung infection successfully.She got admitted in the I.C.U and after 4 day's of treatment recovered and started taking food and even walked and doctors told us that they will shift her to the room the next day but next day there was no availability of of room so she remained in I.C.U.
From next days onward her condition again started deteriorating and she left us on 23rd November 2014.Now mother-child relationship is the closest relationship on earth and losing her is the most painful because when you come in this world you are attached to her through a cord which has to be cut to get you separated from her womb.Although you got physically separated but emotionally you never get detached from your mother.
Although every mother is special but my mother was really special not only for me but not a single person in her life came across who has not admired her.She was liked by one and all which is a rare phenomenon.
Death is the ultimate truth and every person who is born has to go one day.She was instrumental in keeping our joint family intact.She has got the fortune of seeing her four daughter-in-law's,7 Grandsons ,2 Granddaughters and most important one Great Grandson.She not only heard the bhagwat katha before leaving us but was able to meet most of the relatives and seen her native place and performed puja in front of our Kuldevi.(Family Deity).
She was always worried about the comfort of others and even in her death she chose the day Sunday
so every one can bid her good bye without having to take a leave and since she died in early morning everyone was back to their home in the evening.
Although her body is burnt but she is very much alive inside me.She will only die with my death.
R.I.P.
HER LAST PHOTO.
"TUJHE SAB HAI PATA MERI MAA".
May She rest in peace!
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear this Anoop jee, my eyes goes wet after reading this. You can understand the attachment which I do have with my mom. Last year my mom was even in the worst situation of her life, in which doctors from Bhagalpur already declared her dead, and I brought her from Bhagalpur to Delhi in almost the similar condition and thank god she survived. The person whom the doctors of Bhagalpur declared almost dead, was only having the shortage of salt in her body and got discharged by Safdurjung hospital in less than 2 days only.
ReplyDeleteSorry to read this Anoop jee, I and my wife both are feeling so sad about the loss which you felt. Certainly no one in this world can fill the gap. We can only give you the sympathy, but as you said "Death is the ultimate truth and every person who is born has to go one day".....
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