Dear friends my both the children are now employed and my daughter is 24 year old. Now finding a right groom for her is my top priority. Naturally like all parents i want the groom from my community and he should preferably from Delhi or NCR region since my daughter is a typical Delhi girl and she is also very beautiful and its add to the problem.You will wonder how being very beautiful is a problem? Because groom should be equally handsome to match her personality and he should also be from the good family background matching our family status.
In our times we married a girl by just seeing her photograph but today's generation is so different in every aspect.Their dressing sense,food habits,thought process and music,living style is so different.
It is not that only finding right grooms is difficult but it is even harder for the boys.Most of the boys want educated beautiful girls but they want them to be a housewife. But these days most of the educated girls are career oriented which is certainly a good sign.And because of career oriented they want to marry boys living in metro cities and it is very difficult for boys living in small towns & cities.
There are few boys in my known circles who are finding it really difficult to find right brides even after possessing good job,good personality,property etc because their parents are having a house in Darbhanga or Deoghar like small towns.
Apart from above mentioned problem dowry is the biggest problem specially in our mithila community of Bihar.
In our times we married a girl by just seeing her photograph but today's generation is so different in every aspect.Their dressing sense,food habits,thought process and music,living style is so different.
It is not that only finding right grooms is difficult but it is even harder for the boys.Most of the boys want educated beautiful girls but they want them to be a housewife. But these days most of the educated girls are career oriented which is certainly a good sign.And because of career oriented they want to marry boys living in metro cities and it is very difficult for boys living in small towns & cities.
There are few boys in my known circles who are finding it really difficult to find right brides even after possessing good job,good personality,property etc because their parents are having a house in Darbhanga or Deoghar like small towns.
Apart from above mentioned problem dowry is the biggest problem specially in our mithila community of Bihar.
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