Saturday, 24 January 2015

Getting "closeup" : be bold, think out of the box


The very idea of proposing on valentine’s day frightens me, the pressure of proposing to your crush on the most romantic day is one that is filled with many a counter question, such as; 1) will she say yes? 2) if she says no, what will I do? 3) Umm.. is she the one?

The mind explodes but you got to come up with an  idea, after all, there’s no day better than the day of valentine’s to express your love and hope for the best, it’s like “that day, or never”.
So if I was to propose on this Valentine ’s Day, I’ll do it my style.

Firstly, being son of a father who’s a huge movie buff, I’ll try and do it in the movie style and for that, I’ll ask my dad for his suit – if I could pull off wearing his suit, I’d definitely look handsome. Next up, I will take my family car which has been in the family for nearly 20 years and has seen all the big moments of the family, only fitting to bring this car to the special day, right! :D

I’ll pick up my crush from her house and take her to a nice fancy restaurant. Spend the evening there and talk about a few light hearted topics, not make her realize that you’ve got something big planned for the day and hence, I’ll buy a small present for her to make her think that I’ve got nothing else planned.

Once she’s with the idea that her gift is all the surprise she’s getting for the day. I’ll take her to a nice park, a quiet place, not too many people – just fresh air and we two. I’ll gently hold her hand and gather her attention and with all the honesty, express to her the presence she has in my life.

Once I’ve done that, we’ll walk a few more steps and during this time, she’d be starting to get ideas but she’ll still be thinking and NOW’s the moment. I’ll get on my knees and propose to her, picking just the right moment after a very calm evening spent with her.

You’ve to take the leap when you’re proposing, being bold is the ONLY option you have. After all, getting “close up” to your crush for the rest of your life isn’t easy, is it! 


And if my crush does say yes, I will gently hold her hand and give her the precious ring that’s been in my family for years. Nothing expresses true love than the magic of making her feel “you’re now part of my life and my family life”. That’s the perfect idea of a proposal. 

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